no, not leopards or African penguins. Im talking about a true gentleman. I once saw a husband reluctantly hold his crying baby for just like 2 minutes without trying to calm her down. he just waited until his wife took her and continued studying his stupid Iphone4! talk about rude and impolite, i mean that's your child! i could tell from there that he is the kind of a husband who merely thinks that 'im working so hard to give you a luxury life so shut up and take care of our home, by yourself'. this is definitely not the type of man i'm hoping to marry because it is not just a duty of women to build a marriage, it takes two persons for God's sake. And what has happened to knight in shining armors or chivalry? they dont exist, dont they? and the truest gentlemen, are most likely to extinct, no?
a gentleman need not to be oh so charming or soooo handsome but a man whom women can absolutely rely upon. so i guess the world will never have men who are:
1. willing to hold the glass door for a lady anymore, or give a cue that a lady should take her entrance first and foremost.
2. or wait for a woman to have her seat before him
3. or even voluntarily help women in the kitchen or doing house chores. (sadly, they needed to be told)
4. and well others.
anyways, this longg entree has nothing to do with me being a feminist. but i really against the mundane idea of the public that a man needed to get married because he really needs someone to take care of him. well, newsflash both parties should be taken care of!
a gentleman need not to be oh so charming or soooo handsome but a man whom women can absolutely rely upon. so i guess the world will never have men who are:
1. willing to hold the glass door for a lady anymore, or give a cue that a lady should take her entrance first and foremost.
2. or wait for a woman to have her seat before him
3. or even voluntarily help women in the kitchen or doing house chores. (sadly, they needed to be told)
4. and well others.
anyways, this longg entree has nothing to do with me being a feminist. but i really against the mundane idea of the public that a man needed to get married because he really needs someone to take care of him. well, newsflash both parties should be taken care of!
